01 March 2010

girlfriend, partner, soul-mate bla bla bla

i dunno if it's really we're getting old n think maturely or being stupid, recently when we sat down bual with my U frens, we talked bout future haha, talk bout career, talk bout relationship, talk bout families...FYI, among few of us, im the only one single right now haha, there are 3 more frens of mine which we used to hang out togeher, they are all in very stable r'ship now.

n then suddenly there was one nite, one of them asked another 1 (of coz not me) u got think to settle down liao onot..i was there n i was like " wah y so sentimental talk bout these thing"

but who know another 2 all said almost the same thing, which they are prepared to settle down with current gf, ..1 of them i know his gf coz she is in the same batch with us in this U too, they met 2 years go, n we have to agree she is great, good looking outside, n have a great heart inside..we very envy him to have such a nice gf haha..n another fren though i never meet his gf,but from our conversations, we can know tat they are very stable too..so basically this 2 guys are almost done haha...

then i was start thinking "no wonder lar my mom starts to worry bout me haha, because my sis n my bro all found their partner in U-life while i'm still single n i'm almost done with my degree"

but things are not so simple as we wan, u tot just like makan kacang or pick finger meh haha.."TAK" then can get gf..my U fren always laugh at me, come to U 3 years d, still remain single, because i can consider quite socialize person, so its kinda weird i dun have gf haha

however, its not tat simple lar really, u c i repeat it twice already ! its' bout commitment, about scarification, bout tolerance, bout faith and many more.. of coz it is very nice to have someone close to u to share everything u feel..no doubt i wish i can to but the fact is i'm not able to do so , at least not now haha, i hav one candidate, but i guess its not bout the right time yet

i was once thinking ' if find no gf also nvm la, stay single lo, maybe better lui eh, i can do wat i wan, go join UNICEF (u c im so ambitious hahaa) less commitment can do more charity, can spend more time with parent perhaps..mayb tat's y i dun really eager to find a gf during my 3 years spell in unimas

si uncle tanchialiang, keep urge me find gf, but he ownself still single n available there -.- wei uncle u 30y.o liao eh, not young d,whilst im still 23 eh hahahahahaha, faster get 1 gf larr dun make me worry dun let ur parent worry eh pls.

1 comment:

KK said...

it depends on fate, too. Not only the heart saje does the job.